Pleasure kits

Pleasure kits: which set suits you

A pleasure kit is a set of several toys in one box, put together around a theme. It saves you shopping around, and it makes a ready-made gift. The sets in this category vary a lot in what is inside and in how much experience they assume, so here is how they compare.

Loveboxxx: an evening together

Loveboxxx is a Dutch brand. Every box holds seven items: rose petals, a mask or blindfold, handcuffs, a tickler, a mini vibrator, a vibrating cock ring and dice. The themes range from I Love You to Let's Celebrate. The Loveboxxx Sexy Weekend is the most approachable, even if you have little experience with toys. The vibrator and cock ring run on batteries, so check which type you need beforehand.

First. [S]Experience: starting with guidance

The First. sets are designed for people with little experience who like to know what they are doing. Each one comes with an English handbook written together with an experienced sexologist. Self-Love includes a vibrating egg with remote control and 10 modes, a mini vibrator with four attachments, lubricant and toy cleaner. Together is built for couples, with a vibrator, a masturbator, a blindfold and satin cuffs. The First. Backdoor set contains a butt plug, a vibrating plug, anal beads, an anal douche and water-based anal lube. The toys are made of body-safe silicone. Kinky is a first step into BDSM, with a vegan leather flogger and a massage candle among other things.

Secret Pleasure Chest: getting started with bondage

The Secret Pleasure Chest boxes are BDSM sets of 8 to 11 pieces, with adjustable cuffs, a collar and a ball gag. With ten toys, the Secret Pleasure Chest Black Fantasy is a complete starter set, while Pink Pleasure, Red Dragon and Wicked Wildcat differ mainly in colour and number of pieces. The exact contents may vary slightly between batches.

Advent calendars

For the festive season there are erotic advent calendars. The Satisfyer calendar has 24 doors including silicone toys and massage oil. The Secret Kisses calendar has seven bondage-themed pieces, such as nipple covers, a blindfold and a mini flogger.

Materials, lubricant and cleaning

Pair silicone toys with a water-based lubricant. Silicone lube can damage the surface of silicone toys, and oil is not safe with latex condoms. You will find plenty of choice among our lubricants. Clean toys before and after use with lukewarm water and a mild toy cleaner, then let them dry properly. Wipe cuffs, masks and blindfolds with a damp cloth. Take the batteries out if you will not be using a toy for a while.

Playing safely with bondage

The BDSM sets come with a few ground rules. Agree beforehand what is and is not okay, and choose a safeword. If you use a ball gag, agree on a non-verbal signal instead, such as dropping an object. Cuffs should be loose enough to slide a finger underneath, and never leave someone alone while they are restrained. The massage candle in the Kinky set is not for use on intimate areas. When you are ready for the next step, have a look at our bondage range.

Frequently asked questions about pleasure kits

Which pleasure kit is best for beginners?

The First. [S]Experience sets are made specifically for beginners and include a detailed handbook. For something more light-hearted for an evening together, the Loveboxxx sets are a good choice.

Which lubricant works with the toys in a set?

Water-based lubricant suits every material in these sets. The First. Self-Love and Backdoor sets already include a tube of water-based lube.

Are the BDSM boxes suitable for a first time?

Yes, the Secret Pleasure Chest boxes and the First. Kinky set are aimed at couples with little experience, and the cuffs are adjustable. Take it slowly and agree on a safeword first.

Is a pleasure kit shipped discreetly?

Yes, everything goes out with PostNL in plain packaging, which is handy if the set is a gift.

Any questions? Our customer service team is happy to help.